I know I always say this but this is just a subject that comes into my life oh so frequently. Girls choosing a boyfriend over their friends. I don’t understand how you can just forget about someone who has been there for you through thick and thin just bc a guy has come into your life. There is no excuse, if you are unable to balance the two then honestly you’re pathetic, way too dependent and do not deserve anyone. Yes guys are wonderful to have around, but seriously?! A friend is someone who has had your back for so much longer and who will always be there for you. How is it so hard to balance the two? Girls say “ohh if she was a true friend she would have stuck by me and forgiven me” How the hell is someone suppose to “stick by you and forgive you” when you threw them to the side like they’re nothing. All of my friends who have boyfriend have gone AWOL from my life. Unless I make an effort to go see them I don’t see them at all. I’m sick of always having to be the one to make plans and do everything. I truly am an amazing friend and I care so much about people. I’m sick of being put second and getting hurt and forgiving people who don’t even want to take responsibility/blame or even own up to their actions. Just because you see it one way doesn’t make it right, open your minds to how other people feel. I lost my best friend of 7 years to her throwing me to the side. Instead of hearing what I had to say she would brush me off. Recently I’ve gone through something similar, if I wouldn’t have agreed to her terms about this guy she would have chosen him over me and now I hurt everyday bc of it. About a year ago I became really close with a girl and about 6 months later she got a bf and just never had time for me, so I stopped trying. 3 different girls in about a year and a half…this is ridiculous. I’ve had a bf for the past 2 years and I’ve never done this to them. I’m over it, I want a fucking REAL friend.